Is that even a term? Well whether or not it is, I have to start accepting some responsibility for where I am right now. I am not a victim of circumstances, and I have given away a lot of my power. I need to take it back. I have allowed myself to be much too dependent on the views of others. The result? I consider a conflict free day to be the only guide for having a good day. This isn’t living. I need to reclaim my power starting now.