Manifestation: The Gift of Allowing

Manifestation: The Gift of Allowing

March 26, 2026 Off By Kendara Laurel

 

 

 

I tend to be a bit of a ‘control freak’. (I not only like to control the outcome, but I also like to manipulate the process of getting there.) How has this served me? Well, it really hasn’t. I feel that having goals is important, of course, but allowing these goals or outcomes to appear or manifest in the most appropriate way works best. Which sometimes means releasing  my preconceived ideas of how something needs to be, so they can manifest in the best and easiest way.

 

In her book ‘Excuse me, Your Life is Waiting’, Author Lynn Grabhorn talks about allowing as being a large part of manifesting your goals. By allowing and giving oneself the permission to shift from negative feelings to positive ones through focused intention, thus helping readers manifest their desires by paying attention to how they feel.

Ms. Grabhorn starts by asking you to pick a goal you want to manifest. Then to list everything you want to avoid about this goal. Remove what no longer serves so that what you do want can appear.

The next step is to list everything you would like to have the outcome contain. In order to attain what you want, you need to know exactly what you want. It is important. to give yourself permission to do this. Reach for what you want. (Reah for the moon…you might just catch a Star)

The next step in manifesting your desires it to talk about it like you already have it for at least 16 secondsYou can, of course do it for a longer amount of time. You can also change your goals down the line but give yourself at least a month to six weeks and see what happens. You will probably be pleasantly surprised.

 

Want to know what the last step in manifesting your desires is? It is letting your goal go, knowing it will manifest.

In other words, as Henry Ford said, “If you think you can or think you can’t…you’re right.

One more secret to manifestation: Only tell your goals to folks directly involved in helping you attain them.

I will write more on manifestation in future blogs, because it is absolutely one of y favorite subjects in the world. And it is doable.

So folks, have a great day and go out there and MANIFEST!