Every New Years is hyped with the chance for a change. This is the year I…(fill it in). Then, when the next year rolls around, many of us are scratching their heads, wondering why these changes haven’t happened. I have a theory; besides the obvious – not following through. There are also other less obvious reasons: new outside circumstances which sometimes make it necessary to be more flexible. Maybe, the idea is to go with the flow more. Still have your goal in mind, however allow the details to evolve as things change. Sometimes it helps to go one step at a time, instead of a having a huge goal but no specific plans. If you make one small change at a time, allowing each new step to solidify before going on to the next one, you stand a good chance of succeeding.